Tuesday, May 15, 2007

dihentam teruk-teruk

this was the message sent to me yesterday night by someone who means a lot to me.....

Dun understand when u will want to settle down...

Lots of guys treat gers good

How many of them can treat u good for a long time and at the same time put up with ur faults..

Go reflect..........
my tears just couldnt stop flowing down my cheeks.....im lost..so lost...

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Being lost in life is probably the most common thing to happen - there will be countless other crossroads that we will come to in our lives. What's important is finding YOUR own way.

And sometimes we go through them with nothing but just our conscience, heart and guts as our compass.

Knowing that someone out there treats you good and accepts you for all your faults is probably easy - knowing who is probably the tough part. Miss this chance and you might probably not have another one or maybe even get to meet a better one, aiii.... don't we wish for a crystal ball to see all this huh?

Follow your heart...and may it lead you to happiness everlasting.

Cheers.

- PC - said...

hey buddy.. we can tok bout it ok?
my hs door is open 24//7 to welcome u..

we r all there 4 u ok?

take care..

c ya soon...

ColleenC said...

settle down? at our age? aimeh?
sounds a bit scary..=/

worry less and enjoy d ride la..
so kek sim for wad leh..
tis wan knot ma try another wan lor..
dat wan knot ma try another lor..
happy happy eh ming kia ho lu worry
until pien bo ho eh ming kia..

guys treat gals good..esp gals like u sumore..
bat chiu ka sek bak a bit lor..
who really treats u good wan lu ka khi cai la..
those play play, for fun wan..
lu ma ka ye hav fun lor..

use ppl adi let ppl feel hang fuk wan..
chui kou geng gai!..respect!

lu eng kai si tak bo wa sia hami lo..=) haha

Anonymous said...

No matter who is tht boy, wat he said is true enuf. Happy now, despair later? Try and error? All those can't work. Retry, retry and retry, how many times do we had? How strong can we be? Take your time, use your logic and more left brain. Can't left everything to your right brain one. Make your mind clear, ok?

Yeok Tho said...

to u noe hu,

it's true that we dont have much time for trial and error (btw it's not try and error), but if at one point in time, when you know the relationship cant work out anymore, why continue? isnt stopping it now better than later? doesnt it hurt him more if she drags?

and... why are you suggesting her using more of her left brain? im sure she has been using it all the while. well, HAVENT YOU? and havent everyone else?

the truth is, we dont know the whole story of how it happened. just the two of them know best. leave it to them :)

lam, i know you're strong :)

loving you,
yt

Anonymous said...

How many of them can treat u good for a long time and at the same time put up with ur faults?

No 1 knows whether a relationship can be everlasting without trying. So I would say just follow the flow, angel.

As for using more left brain, please let me share my own opinion too. Anyway, I'll have to assume this blog entry is about love (correct me if I'm wrong).

Love is something cannot be formulated just like painting, so I guess using MORE left brain doesn't do any good.

If you are trying to use more left brain, you probably will have to list down all attributes you want from the guy then tick/cross each of them to see whether he suits you or not. Is that how we pick our partners?

To me, there won't be any PERFECTLY matched couple. Even though a couple is very well matched, I consider that a good start for them and whether the relationship can last forever still very much depend on how they treat each other along the way til their dying days.

Your heart will lead you to the right person, trust it. :-)

Anonymous said...

I wish to appologise if my "left-brain" theory sounds a lil bit insulting. It's never my intention to insult anybody, more over, a good fren whom I care.

True enuf that our right brain often dominant when we are in love (tht's probably y no want has ever successfully describe loves in words). And we all quite enjoy that feelings. What I am trying to say is, we should never rush into things,too fast.

I hav seen her goin thru quite a number of ups and downs (and who hasn't anyway?). She is no doubt a tough gal, stronger than what her size suggest. I only wish that she will be happy always. I can't afford to see her being hurt again (let's wish it won't happens).

There are more things to come in future. Love, career, family, etc. I'll b supporting u 4ever.

Wish u happy, always :-)

Anonymous said...

Hi u noe hu,

Why in the first place you thought of seeing her been hurt instead of wishing her a good ending for whatever she is encountering right now?

I'm sure no 1 here other than herself knows whether it will be a smooth sailing journey or a roller coaster ride. So why not we wish her all the best?

Cheers!

To angel,

I'll always stand by you, giving you my endless supports and encouragements for what you are experiencing in life.

Loving you,
Dyno

- PC - said...

yay!! dyno win!! u got it.. u got it!! LOL!! take care my fren!!

dEvIlInE said...

to all my buddies, frens and anonymous...

thank u for ur support,love and care. i treasure it a lot. im sorry for making u guys worry about me.i bet theres always a way out in watever prob im facing. its just a bad or pleasant one. so far, i think im doing fine.
d and blessed to have u all....as my buddies -yeoktho-chinchoo-cmei-szekuan-aL-cnee-
-jen-yin-n ..........

to dyno, words couldnt express how i felt..but i guess u noe....thank u for everything.


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